I Thought Moving From Mexico To Chicago Would Help Me Feel More Settled-Boy, Was I Wrong.

After spending most of my adult years living outside of the US, including seven years in Asia, and two in Mexico, I started wondering if it was time to settle down. I grew up in Northeast, Ohio, but besides a few months during the pandemic, I hadn't lived there full-time since I was 18.

I loved life abroad, from immersing myself in different cultures to the lower cost of living, but I was starting to want more stability. Plus, I was lonely and a bit envious of friends back home who were hitting different milestones like getting married, buying property, and having children.

So I thought I'd lucked out when, in early 2021, I accepted a social media job offer at a small nonprofit newsroom in Chicago. I was living in Mexico at the time, but excitedly packed my bags for the coolest city in the Midwest. Unfortunately, it wasn't what I'd hoped for.


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